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03 aug 06 "Can you turn a straight person gay?" sure! just force him to have sex with men, or with women, depending on the gender of the gay person in question (i will consider here only gay men). alternatively, you can get him to self-identify as gay (add moussed hair, trimmed pubes, foundation makeup, the thought "i am gay", etc). this is the real-world approach. the cognitive approach doesn't work anywhere near as easily, if at all. the cognitive behavior of being gay is to find other men sexually attractive, to the extent that one focuses on them largly or exclusively. in order to bring this about, one might try some psychotherapy accompanied by a strong motivator (all of his friends are gay, and they refuse to accept him unless he is, too). it'd be relatively easy to harness whatever bit of attraction the subject harbored for men and feed it through cognitive therapy, but almost impossible to shut down the attraction to women. the most we can hope for is cognitively bisexual, and actively homosexual. the answer here is dependent on your definiton of "gay" -- see 0000087. if you want to be gay, then start going to gay bars, and going home with men. it'll help if you don't have sex with any women or masturbate for a long time beforehand. find a slender, hairless man -- one who resembles a woman, or at least an androgyn. or, whatever you find attractive. you might say "but i don't find any man attractive" -- this isn't quite true. you might not find any man attractive enough to cause you to jump, headlong and without reservation, into the gay pool, but you can rank men as "more attractive" or "less attractive" (who has the nicer face? better body? better hair? etc). consider "man x" and "man y", whom you both know. with whom would you rather not copulate? who is more disgusting? the loser of this contest is your ticket to homosexuality. after primping and metroing to the gay bar, restrict your sexual encounters to oral sex, for the time being (a mouth is a mouth, as they know in prison), unless you're feeling adventurous. but it'd be a shame to undo all of your work with a single horrifying, formative experience (actually, many gay couples choose not to engage in anal sex at all). appreciate and fixate on the benefits of gay culture (fashion, culture, beauty, male expressiveness, etc). become accepted and comfortable in the community. admit that your question was really "how can i become gay?" i know exactly who you are. just kidding -- i didn't even bother to look up possibilities, although i did add a more precise homing device to this site. be warned. |
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